I just lost my drain of thought

Um, don’t try to start something with a girl and then disappear and sporadically resurface. It’s not as mysterious and appealing as you may think it is. And it gets kind of old after, say, one time? As strange as it sounds, the whole disappearing act does not help to build a relationship, and it may, in fact, hinder it. And don’t be too surprised when she decides to stop answering your texts and calls. Just a little tip for those of you who think withdrawing is a great idea. Absence does not make the heart grow fonder when it comes without warning and there was little to miss to begin with.